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Solider

Hi there, I'm not one to talk because I'm actually going through hard times myself and have posted a message seeking advice. But, I'm guilty of having several relationships that became seriously involved extrememly fast. You did too. I'm told then, that's it's actually called "lust" then. But, lust did turn into love and a long monogamous relationship sometimes. I guess you might be like me in the sense you give everything and give yourself wholly into who is in your life at the time. It's that we might give 100% of our heart away too quickly. I felt for you when you told him you didn't trust him with your feelings, and his reply was "I don't blame you..." To me, that's saying he's going to hurt you again. I do believe love can happen fast and slip in through the back door and we can find our soulmates. But, it looks like this is not the case. He probably did fall in love and he probably really felt all these good feelings you felt about love. But, even you said it, you both want different things in life. The kids, for instance. You already have kids, can't change that and I'm sure you don't want to. But, now he doesn't want any in the future and you do. Do you just want him to pacify you and tell you what you want to hear or wouldn't you rather have someone to want the same things you want without being pushed or enticed into the situation? I do feel for you and hope things will come to some resolution and you can get honest answers you need to hear. It's good he's getting counseling, but there are good counselors and bad counselors out there for depression. Do you think it's too early or too late to try joint counseling and possibly go with him to a session somewhere down the line? Maybe that could help to get to the bottom of his committment-phobia. You don't want to just be a person he has fun only (sex) without some sort of committment. You know, I'm sure you don't want to be just a booty-call kind of thing. If he's worth it, and only you'd know. Try to look into why he wants to just be so committment free. Hope this helps.

Guested

In the outcome she told him no. But I think you should confront to her about the lies, as you already planed to do. I know how lies can be a slippery slope. Once you dismiss small lies, believe me, it's getting to grow and grow. So she must understan the need of 100% honesty in a relationship. And for that, omission is also considered as a lie.

Arin

I think you should tell him. I mean, it's the right thing to do. Sure, he'll likely call it quits, but that's what happens sometimes.

Noted

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Covenanter

Thank you to everyone who responded. I really appreciate it. Last night, while thinking about the whole situation and reading some of your replies, I randomly developed a headache to the point where I had to turn in early for bed. It was so strange for me because I don't get headaches.

Humanitarian

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Logmask

Even her footprints look pretty se.xy

Dryopes

I agree. righty leaves me speechless

Almond

You have emailed her more than once in the past 48 hours? She is going to think you are a stalker.

Cottar

1. On three occasions, I chatted with women for several days and then communication abruptly ended. I had a lot in common with them and the OKC matches were in to 80%+ range. One of them stopped conversation because she didn't like my facial hair.. ALL of my profile pictures show me with a full goatee.. The second said she wasn't into guys under six feet tall. The third was the most disappointing because we actually set up a date but she cancelled it because she said she just wasn't "into guys with longer hair" (my hair is cut at mid-ear level..). I wasn't rude to any of them and wished them well but they seriously wasted my time. The filter I described above would have solved that issue for me.

Thuban

Please, for your own sake, don't delude yourself into thinking you know everything based on observations you make on an internet board that exists for people who have relationship problems. Those who don't have problems don't come to these boards, unless like me it is something minor and/or we want to learn how others cope with difficulties and maybe offer some hope or help by sharing our own life experiences.

Caudata

Most women aren't self-deprecating. Some of them are quite good at cutting others down, but I've yet to meet a woman who doesn't ultimately take herself and her life very seriously.

Robinson

Why would she pull that? Just to get under my skin? I, honestly think she doesn't like me. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and have become very close with his large family. (He has 6 brothers) Her boyfriend, Joe, likes me a lot and shows it by making fun of me..which is fine, and we have a good time with it, but he gives me a lot of attention in doing that. Their mother adores me. Another brother always calls me his favorite sister in law. And the rest of the family really likes me as well.

Mari

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Shied

Hi.I'm coast Rican , very out going and blunt , I enjoy being active and in shape.

Paradichlorobenzene

From what you say, it sounds like your relationship is past its shelf life and he sees that. It's gone rotten, but you don't see or smell it. Eating rotten food makes you sick: staying in rotten relationships damages your psyche. It's "must go" day: time to throw out what is making you depressed, anxious, insecure and feeling like you're not enough.